Margaret Jane LALOR- married William Hewlett

When I first began exploring my family history, a Lalor cousin generously sent me a lot of material, including some exquisite photos.  Included was this four generation photo, with my great-grandmother Catherine Lalor (née Rowland) seated on the right. Standing is her eldest daughter Margaret Hewlett (née Lalor), and her eldest daughter Eileen Hamilton (née Hewlett) is seated on the left. The child is said to be "Popsy" Hamilton, Eileen's daughter. Eileen had two daughters, Eileen (born 1922) and Daphne (born 1928) and at this stage I am assuming Popsy is the eldest daughter, Eileen. (Let me know if you are reading this and know that I am wrong!)

The eldest daughter and firstborn child for my Lalor-Rowland great-grandparents was Margaret Jane LALOR who was born in August 1872 while the family was residing at South Beach. She was baptised in the Greymouth Catholic parish by Fr Henry Belliard SM in early September 1872. 1.

The details on the Intentions to Marry form for her in August 1897 said that she was to marry William Hamilton HEWLETT, a sawmiller, and the marriage was to be performed by Rev D.P. Carew at her parents house at South Beach near Paroa. (1897b- page 280- District of Greymouth) 2.

Thanks to Luke Howison whose work scanning these Intentions to Marry registers has made them available to us all! https://itm.howison.co.nz/

There were six children in the Hewlett family, the first stillborn, then four more natural-born children, before the youngest was adopted. The first child, born stillborn in June 1898, was recorded in the burial register for Karoro Cemetery.  
The second child was Eileen Catherine, who was born just under a year later, in May 1899. She married William Anthony HAMILTON.
The third child, born in 1902, was James William, who became a printer, and who remained living in the area with his parents, and never married.  
The fourth child, William Thomas, was born in 1906, and had only a short life. He died as a baby, aged 5 months old, and is buried in what became his Lalor grandparents' plot. (The date of his death on the headstone has errors). He is buried along with his cousin Evelyn Schroeder who had accidentally drowned a few years earlier, as a toddler. 3.4.

The fourth child born in the family was their second daughter, Margaret Alice, who was born in 1908, and later married Bernard MYER, and they raised their family in Greymouth.

The last child in the family was David John (Jack) Hewlett, who was adopted in 1910. He married in Wellington in 1936 to Marie Eugene Denia, and they lived in Christchurch for many years, having one daughter called Marie. 5.

 

Margaret Hewlett and her husband William lived in the Paroa/ South Beach area for many years, and there is in fact a Hewlett Rd there. I haven't confirmed this is named for them, but it seems likely. 6.

 

Margaret lived to be 68 years old, and died in Grey River Hospital in March 1942. Her husband William died just under a year later, and is buried with her. Their son James died in 1955 and is also named on the same headstone at Karoro Cemetery. Their grave is in Section 3, Row 9 of Karoro Cemetery. 7.

 

If you are reading this, and are a descendant of Margaret Hewlett (Lalor) please feel free to contact me. I am a granddaughter of her younger brother James who settled in Kumara. 

1. Birth details from Historic BDMs, Ancestor Search Helper, and baptism certs from Chch Catholic Archives

2. ITM details courtesy of Luke Howison's scans of ITM registers at Archives NZ 

https://itm.howison.co.nz/

3. NZSG Cemetery Records (Kiwi Collection)

 4. Funeral notice: Greymouth Evening Star, 20 February 1907, page 2. Headstone photo held by author.

5: wedding report- Evening Post, Volume CXXI, Issue 138, 12 June 1936, page 1 

6: Photo of Hewlett Rd & sign taken by author
7. headstone photo taken by author

8. Death notice, Margaret Hewlett- Greymouth Evening Star, 21 March 1942, page 4. 

James LALOR - parentage?

James Lalor, my great-grandfather, died in 1916 at South Beach, near Greymouth, and was said to be 78 at the time. (This puts his birth at around 1838.) His parents were named as John Lalor and Mary Lalor (with her maiden surname not filled in), and he was said to have been born in Kilkenny, Ireland. (Place of birth was not recorded on marriage documents in 1871 when he married Catherine Rowland.)

Many trees on Ancestry have details entered for his parents, sometimes with the father as James Fintan Lalor, sometimes with the mother as Mary Gorman, but nearly always the people mentioned live in Co Laois, not Kilkenny. Most of these trees appear to have copied from each other, and I have never seen a suitable source on any of them linking our James Lalor with these parents.

Our James Lalor was proudly from Kilkenny- it is even mentioned on his headstone in Karoro Cemetery. It was also mentioned in his obituary.

Some people claim that James Fintan Lalor is the father of our James. James Fintan Lalor is from a famous family in Co Laois, and was the father of Peter Fintan Lalor of Eureka Stockade fame in the Victorian goldfields days. Read more about this Lalor family in this Ballarat genealogy document: https://www.ballaratgenealogy.org.au/index.php/research?view=article&id=212:genealogy-of-the-lalor-family&catid=14

In an article in the Free Lance in 1901, James Lalor is interviewed as a parliamentary messenger, and it is mentioned here again that he ‘belonged to Kilkenny’. The article mentions that he “was in Bendigo when the Eureka riots took place in Ballarat”, and that the Peter Lalor who figured there so prominently was a “distant relation of Mr James Lalor”. This ‘distant’ cousin label would rule out James Fintan Lalor, Peter Lalor’s father, being the father of our James.

If you look on Griffiths Valuations for Kilkenny, there are many John Lalors listed, and possibly one of these is the father of our James Lalor. However, I have never seen any more precise location than ‘Kilkenny’ listed for him, so it is not easily possible to find his father.

Despite various parents being named on Ancestry trees for our James Lalor, I haven’t seen any credible Kilkenny sources to support any of them, and for now, I will continue to only write his parents as John and Mary Lalor, with her maiden name unknown.

 

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1. Obituary. Greymouth Evening Star, 5 October 1916. Papers Past.

2. Entre Nous, The Free Lance, Saturday November 16 1901. Papers Past.