James Lalor, my great-grandfather, died in 1916 at South Beach, near Greymouth, and was said to be 78 at the time. (This puts his birth at around 1838.) His parents were named as John Lalor and Mary Lalor (with her maiden surname not filled in), and he was said to have been born in Kilkenny, Ireland. (Place of birth was not recorded on marriage documents in 1871 when he married Catherine Rowland.)
Many trees on Ancestry have details entered for his parents, sometimes with the father as James Fintan Lalor, sometimes with the mother as Mary Gorman, but nearly always the people mentioned live in Co Laois, not Kilkenny. Most of these trees appear to have copied from each other, and I have never seen a suitable source on any of them linking our James Lalor with these parents.
Our James Lalor was proudly from Kilkenny- it is even mentioned on his headstone in Karoro Cemetery. It was also mentioned in his obituary.
Some people claim that James Fintan Lalor is the father of our James. James Fintan Lalor is from a famous family in Co Laois, and was the father of Peter Fintan Lalor of Eureka Stockade fame in the Victorian goldfields days. Read more about this Lalor family in this Ballarat genealogy document: https://www.ballaratgenealogy.org.au/index.php/research?view=article&id=212:genealogy-of-the-lalor-family&catid=14
In an article in the Free Lance in 1901, James Lalor is interviewed as a parliamentary messenger, and it is mentioned here again that he ‘belonged to Kilkenny’. The article mentions that he “was in Bendigo when the Eureka riots took place in Ballarat”, and that the Peter Lalor who figured there so prominently was a “distant relation of Mr James Lalor”. This ‘distant’ cousin label would rule out James Fintan Lalor, Peter Lalor’s father, being the father of our James.
If you look on Griffiths Valuations for Kilkenny, there are many John Lalors listed, and possibly one of these is the father of our James Lalor. However, I have never seen any more precise location than ‘Kilkenny’ listed for him, so it is not easily possible to find his father.
Despite various parents being named on Ancestry trees for our James Lalor, I haven’t seen any credible Kilkenny sources to support any of them, and for now, I will continue to only write his parents as John and Mary Lalor, with her maiden name unknown.
1. Obituary. Greymouth Evening Star, 5 October 1916. Papers Past.
2. Entre Nous, The Free Lance, Saturday November 16 1901. Papers Past.
