I have decided that 2025 needs to be a year of summarising and sharing much of my genealogy information, starting off with my eight great-grandparents. I have recently been busy finding out as much as I could about my Arbuckle and Heneberry lines in Victoria, so thought my first summary should be about my great-grandmother Catherine Lalor née Rowland, whose mother was an Arbuckle. But I realise she has already been paid some attention paid via this blog. (I wrote about her here already.) So this blog post just has a few points.
This is the way Catherine and I are connected:
It is quite tricky finding out more about a woman in the mid-late 1800s, and early 1900s. Just as a basic, you have to remember to use their husband's initial in any search of old newspapers etc. (This shouldn't surprise me- my mother was always addressed as Mrs JK Riordan, and even after she was widowed she had to make a determined effort to reclaim Mrs KH Riordan.)
However, here are a few things about Catherine Rowland, my great-grandmother, from my summary:
Catherine
Rowland was baptised on 20 December 1845 at St James
Church, Melbourne. Her father was described as a gardener, and the family was
living in Heidelberg.
Catherine had two younger sisters. Isabella was born
in 1853 but sadly she died of Diphtheria aged only 7, on 1 May 1860, near Kyneton. She is buried in the Kyneton General Cemetery, where her mother Margaret was
also buried just 15 months later. Margaret suffered from consumption (Phthisis
Pulmonalis) for 12 months, dying in August 1861.
Catherine’s youngest sister, Margaret
Jane Rowland, was born in 1856, so was only four years old when their mother
died. Margaret was later listed on the
Victorian Children’s Register, and was admitted to care in 1867 as a result of
neglect. Her father Christopher had deserted sometime after her mother Margaret
had died. She was discharged on 21 November 1872, to her sister, Mrs J Lalor
(Catherine Rowland) in Greymouth on the West Coast, per the Albion S.S.
It appears that sometime in early 1871,
Catherine crossed the Tasman and ended up in Greymouth. On 14th
September 1871, she married James LALOR in the Roman Catholic Chapel. In their ‘Intentions to Marry’ form, she was described as a spinster who
dwelled in the Greymouth District. Her stated ‘length of residence’ was
possibly 8 months, but I found the entry hard to decipher. A marriage notice
appeared in the Grey River Argus, 18 Sep 1871 in which she was described
as a native of Victoria.
Catherine and
James had six children. Their first daughter, Margaret Jane, was born 22 August
1872, while they were residing at South Beach, and subsequent children were
named John, Mary, Robert, James and Thomas.
In a very sad instance of family news, Catherine was
recorded as the one looking after a grandchild, Evelyn Schroeder, in 1903, when
the toddler went missing and was found drowned in Nelson Creek nearby.
From the electoral rolls, we can see that Catherine
lived for many years at South Beach- possibly her entire time since marriage.
In the 1899 West Coast (Grey) roll, she is listed as
“Lalor, Catherine, South Beach, housekeeper, residential”
In the 1914 West Coast (Westland) roll, she is listed
as “Lalor, Catherine, South Beach, married.”
In the 1928 West Coast (Westland) roll, she is listed
as “Lalor, Catherine, South Beach, Greymouth, widow.”
Catherine was
left a widow on 3 October 1916 when her husband James Lalor died of throat
cancer. All their children were still living at that date,
four males and two females.
Catherine herself died on 3rd January 1934
at South Beach of sudden myocardial
failure. (In the causes of death on her death registration it is also noted
that she had a leg amputated due to ‘senile gangrene’ two years previously.)
She was said to have been in New Zealand for 62 years.
Trying to find out more about Catherine Lalor née
Rowland in newspapers has not led to many finds. In 1915 there was a euchre and
dance evening at South Beach for which she contributed some beautiful handwork
as a prize. She donated 2s6d to an X-Ray Fund in 1920.
** On
2 November 1928 in the Grey River Argus, it was recorded that: “Mrs J.
Lalor, senr., of South Beach, has received word of the death of her sister Mrs
E. Bradley, at Auckland.”
Mention
of Catherine Lalor happened a few times in the military records for her son
Thomas Patrick Lalor. When he enlisted for war service, he listed his mother as
“Kate Lalor”, born in Melbourne, Australia, and resident in NZ for 45 years. In
September 1917 when he was in Featherston Camp, he was in the hospital with
influenza and Mrs J Lalor, (Mother), Greymouth, was listed as the person to
contact in case of necessity.